“Don’t Lie”
October 21, 2012 Leave a comment
I was explaining the slides in a standard media training deck to a young colleague and had gone through the material about preparation and messaging, the section on techniques for giving the interview and the various caution areas, when she said, with a slight tone of surprise: “You don’t have a slide that says, ‘Don’t Lie.'”
Slightly surprised myself, I said I hoped that the entire approach to messaging based on supported, illustrated facts made it clear that honesty and a strong measure of transparencey were built into the process and that if a client needed to be told not to lie, there was a deeper problem somewhere.
“I guess you can see I come out of politics,” she said.
We both laughed. Indeed, in a realm where reaction is often guided by belief rather than reason and where campaigns playing hard ball have had success hurling negatives that the opposition must then spend time defending against whether they are true or not, the recommendation not to lie is probably a good idea.
As I mentioned in a previous post, I don’t use political candidates as examples in media training because people’s reactions to how politicians handle interviews is largely guided by their own politics. And I don’t want to let politics get in the way of learning about technique.
So I gave her the deck and went away feeling vaguely superior that I worked in a world where I didn’t have to tell people not to lie.
Or did I? I pondered this for a few days and concluded I could feel good that after a couple of decades as a media trainer I had consistently guided clients to be truthful in all communications. That I didn’t have to explicitly say, “Don’t lie.” In fact, clients themselves have almost universally sought reality-based messaging.
However — let’s be clear — we do spend a great deal of time counseling clients to tell their stories, and that includes giving their perspective on things. Perspective – some would call it point of view – is an interesting and very important thing. Even without disputing the basic facts, there can be varying perspectives on issues and realities. The receptacle filled to the mid-point with a liquid can be called either half-empty or half-full. Both are correct. Perspective and context will guide which description we use.
And, let’s be clear again, people’s deepest beliefs will guide their perspectives and color their points of view. Modern polling and focus group research has been developed to find out what people believe, feel and think — and determine what messages will move the needle on specific issues.
But the traditional elements of proof — facts, data, and examples that bolster and illustrate — are still the most valuable tools to reach a broad spectrum of the public. But even these elements need careful examination and selection.
And in many instances, that is what happens in media training and coaching. Clients have a chance to road test communications, watch and hear their own story in their own voice, handle tough and probing series of questions, and consider expert reactions and recommendations. At the end of the day, the spokesperson client gets to join the evaluative process: is this credible — am I credible?
I’ve spoken about the “imperative” of communications coaching even for practiced and capable executives — this is another reason I believe it’s true.